How do you deal with a parent that is obsessed with control?

My parents were the same way. But now they are divorced (not right to say sry). Not only was 1 parent controling but over protective and hypocritical! What I did was tell them how I feel about the way they handle a tiny problem and that not only is it affecting me but the entire family. You probably feel the same way. That wasnt the reason they divorced. The real reason why was horrible. I hope its not going on in your life. Anyway tell them how you feel and even if they dont listen or act like they care about it you should call a friend and go out and get your mind off of it cause most likely it will be over by the time you get home. Go against whwat they say if they wont let you out. Tell them "im not going to stand here and listen to you bicker therfore i am going out" and just walk out.